3:49 AM

Well, this post is basically addressing teenagers out there....i want to tell you that quarelling with your parents is what many teenagers go through...the main reason is because you are growing up...and you want your own freedom..it's a natural feeling to want to be free and do stuff for yourself....like for example, you want to go out with your friends to swim in the beach but they say no.....then you like get angry and tell them that it's only a swim in the beach and like all the stuff you do are not going to be wrong..but then again, accidents do happen..i agree.most likely you would not drown....even i get pissed off when parents are over -protective...bt it's because your parents love you so much..they just cannot bear the thought of losing you just because of a simple swim in the beach...sometimes you gotta understand their heart...and i mean why not hold on a little until you are slightly older and mature? that would not hurt anyone right?
Many time when teens learn how to smoke and take drugs is because their parents allow them to be totally free..when this happens....some teens start to mix with the wrong group of students and friends,.....slowly they change and start to shoplift and do other illegal and bad things....reason:parents did not keep a close eye//...i'm not saying the don't care but as in....sometimes things don't turn out well when you get total freedom...this constant bicker of freedom and being mature and stuff will never end for all teenagers to come...this is part of growing up...your parents have gone through this before..and i am sure they know what they are doing..some parents prefer to let their child have more freedom only when they are about 16 or 17..if you are like 18 or something and then don't even allow you to go to a movie....sit down and talk to your parents.....tell them that you feel it's time to let go a little...i mean..you know your parents are not gonna hold on to you for the rest of your life.....

Freedom is something that will come in time....but you must know how to handle it...if you show your parents that you are mature and responsible of YOUR OWN self and things...i am sure they will start to realise that you are able to handle freedom..this may take a while...but you must not quarrel with them over going out....having freedom and stuff like that...if you really have the maturity to handle freedom, then you also should have the maturity to understand that your parents will let you handle your freedom in time to come...

Pray to God to ask Him to help you grow in maturity and to not get angry over your parent's decisions....

At least you have someone to quarrel with about freedom....some teens don't even have that priviledge...treasure your parents...

+ AMEN

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